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Asian Woman Sought For LTR / Marriage
Posted on Classifieds for MySpace - Over 4 weeks ago
- Age, Category:
- 48 yr. old, Men Seeking Women
- Desired Relationship:
- Relationship
- Location:
- Reno, NV
Features & Description
Sun. 11/30: I'm adding here my MySpace "About Me" I've lived in Reno since late '95. Came here from California (Native). I grew up in the Redwoods, then at 19 (in '79) went straight to L.A. I pretty much lived there for nearly fifteen years...with the exception of around 3 years "goofing around" elsewhere (and 6 months of that spent in certain parts of S.E. Asia). And I once tried going back to Eureka, but such didn't even last a year...'guess it's true: "You Can't go Home Again." I think that it was sometime circa 1982 (before I went overseas) when I was working at In-n-Out burger that I came to the conclusion that I liked Asian women. I still remember this one day at work when I saw this pretty Asian girl in the back lane. She was driving, and waiting her turn in line. She had on this kind of dazzling white opaque lipstick (I can't really describe it) but it drove me wild! Well, it was all downhill after that, and I just found myself becoming more and more attracted to them...Asians, not just lips! lol OMG...so many years have passed since then. I went out with, albeit, only a handful, of white girls; and even had a several month relationship with a Hispanic, but all of my major relationships were with Asians. But there were really just three. One was for less than a year. One was for around 3 years. And the last was for 10 years...and all were living together situations. The last (recently ended) one had me in the role as a (defacto) step father. She had 2 daughters (ten years apart in age) and the youngest was 6. The other older daughter (and pretty much the reason for our breakup) ah...I don't even want to "go there" right now. But as far as the younger one, she pretty much considered me her dad, and that went on until the middle of 11th grade...it actually kinda still is, but I can't put all of "this" into perspective right now. So, I'm alone again. Other than this online "stuff," I really haven't made any major effort at finding somebody else yet...albeit, it has only been around 3-4 months. Oh, I've looked around in a couple of casinos, but definitely don't want to get involved with some Gamblaholic! Not having wheels (other than a 25 year old 10 speed, or a $200k bus:) is certainly making it harder. But I've a few times gone out to the mall, bookstores, etc., but nothing really serious. In short, and in spite of the fact that I'm "looking," I realize the shock of the ending of a ten-year relationship hasn't entirely yet worn off...'guess I'm sorta right now like Tom Hanks in Sleepless in Seattle lol. I know that at this point I really haven't said a whole lot "about me." It's not a whole lot, but I do have a permanent monthly income. It's enough that I can "get by" without working, although I am at this time looking for a part time job...like 4 days a week, that's sweet! With that enhanced income, and my relatively cheap rent & expenses, I can perhaps save a little better than most these days! haha My goal right now is to do just that, and even get back into tucking some of it away in the stock market...yeah, when GM hits 50 cents, I'll be buying up a bunch of that! :) I've had a Sharebuilder acct. for a number of years, and really enjoy playing with that. However, and ideally, I'm hoping to find someone who's pretty much stable, and our combined resources could be beneficial to our life together. Oh ^^ what else? Those 10 years were also where I was living in (and helping to pay the mortgage on) a newer 2-story home in N.W. Reno. I dearly loved that! It was "my home" and I was pretty much enjoying the life as a homeowner. Oh, this hurts so much...I so dearly miss my house, my yard, my pets, and taking care of everything! I want that back. With someone else, and better than ever before! But if we have to for a few years live rather meagerly, and save hard to have it, then that's who I'm looking for. I like to spend most of my time at home, and enjoying it. Every woman in my life has been my best friend, too. We do virtually everything together. Going shopping, doing all of those wonderful things together at home (cooking, bbq's, decorating, entertaining, cuddling on the sofa watching TV) oh, you know! Going out and goofing off together: a little gambling (a nice & romantic getaway to Vegas!) shooting some pool / bowling, walks, fishing / camping, museums, bookstores, library, antiquing, garage sales, trips, oh...there's always something to do! :) Do you want to have a baby? With the right woman, I could envision it. I'm pretty good around the house, too. I can fix things (even the roof!) I can cook, and I'm just generally into all of it...doing the dishes (I prefer by hand) mopping, vacuuming, dusting, laundry...most everything. Taking care of the car(s) - washing/waxing, changing the oil / minor tuneups...hey, I used to live in L.A. remember! :) I also used to love having a motorcycle, and I'd love to have one again. Oh, and something like a nice BMW touring bike! Just imagine that: our taking those nice rides together / trips...you'll love it! A nice trip up to Mt. Lassen / Susanville, maybe to the Wine Country, all the way to Vegas / Laughlin, or Monterey / Carmel. And I'm very good with bikes...to help lessen your worries there. I've had several big street bikes, and rode many years / many thousands of mile on them...mostly in Southern California. In fact, and for many of those years, bikes were mostly my soul transportation...to & from work, etc. And, on L.A. streets / freeways. In short, I'm probably about a good & experienced a rider as any CHP / L.A. police "motor" officer. I may be 48, but I'll tell you what: I've seen a lot of guys in this town (some even younger than I) that look a heck of a lot older! Perhaps I can attribute this to my "California" thing; but I've always been pretty healthy, and have taken reasonably good care of myself. I'm also of Swiss-Italian ancestry (2nd Generation) and this may tend to have some degree of affect. Okay, haha, I've said enough for now! I'm more old fashioned, so I won't use terminology like "hey, hit me up..." I'm not all that into Rap / Hip Hop, etc., either. Ah, and as far as you? Hip Hop (to some degree) I can perhaps tolerate a bit (but 3 CD's of it on our way to Vegas?)! lol Rap? ah...NO! And, on the other hand, can you put up with Beatles / Lennon (Classic Rock)? Oh, and BTW, I also like concerts...finally saw Rush here a few months ago, and loved it! So, we can add that as part of our "arsenal" of things to do! :) Why did I choose this (hard to read?) smaller white font? I don't know...it just seems nice in the clouds ^^ and maybe you'll see it that way, too! :)My original classified ad:I'm not here for flirting. I'm here to find a very serious girl, and one who "gets me," (and I her) and likewise desires a permanent relationship. I can find this woman in my city, or I may find her online. But the one thing that is for certain: she will definitely be Asian. I have an important plan for the future that I wish to share with this woman. I'm not looking for playing games with anybody's heart... or they mine. I'm looking for my possible wife to be... and I have many important things to tell her. I'm a good & decent man, and I have a lot of love to offer the right woman. I'm not rich...heck, I don't even have a car right now - lol! But I do have a permanent income, and a place of my own. A car right now for me would just be a foolish expenditure...and besides, I don't even really need one, with everything I need being virtually within walking distance from where I live. But my goodness! I've been driving for over thirty years. I've had around 8-9 different cars, and as many larger cc street bikes...of which most of my riding years were in Southern California. I've had a Vette, 2 Camaros, etc. In short, do I enjoy not having a car, or a bike? Of course not...I miss them, and love driving. I've somewhat recently endured the ending of a ten-year relationship, and one where I was in the role as a (non-married) step father. Why did we break up? Was it "my fault"? I think the jury's still out on that one...and it's pretty much subject to interpretation. Am I devastated over it? I'll discuss it with the right woman. My opinion of "today"? haha ^^ People talk way too much, think way too highly of themselves, are too overly-consumed with music, etc., and I really don't care to be with someone such as that. But I digress...you may be now reading this, and you may indeed be "the one for me." The ball's in your court. :)
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