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I am timid, distracted, and heavy-handed

thelucidwhisper

23 / m / gay / Single

Schenectady, New York, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 5' 8" (1.72m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual encounters (sex partners)

Smokes No

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs Never

Religion

Sign Leo and it's fun to think about

Education Working on college/university

Job Clerical / Administrative

Income N/A

Kids N/A

Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats

Languages English (Fluently)

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My self-summary

I've never been very good at writing these things. So let's get down to it.
I am a college student living in Albany.
I love reading and usually have 3 or 4 books going at one time.
I was heavily involved in Theater, mostly I was acting but enjoyed directing as well, but haven't had the time recently.
I tend to be pretty family oriented.
I spend way too much time on the internet.
My first relationship was with a girl in high school, lasted 2 years, and forced me into the realization that I am gay.
I love to laugh, but I tend to laugh at many things aren't funny to some people.
I seem to over-analyze situations.
I never catch on when someone is flirting with me.

What I'm doing with my life

Working through my undergrad.

Almost full time at my data entry job at a medical office.

Keeping those around me happy, hopefully.

I'm really good at

Creative Writing, Digital Photography, Acting

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Anything from Neil Gaiman, James Patterson, Tennessee Williams, Oscar Wilde, Shakespeare and David Sedaris.

Movies: B-movies and bad horror movies from the 70's. Something Cliche from the 80's will keep me happy. Even though I can't sit through the Molly Ringwald movies. I seem to blindly enjoy sappy teen comedies. Although lately I have been into costume dramas and historical epics.

Music: My taste varies, I'll give anything a listen once. But I try to steer clear of Rap and Country.

Food: I like to try new things. Pizza has always been a "sure thing" with me.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The state of the economy
Politics
Crazy Right-wing Religious Nuts

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On a typical Friday night I am

either out with friends, spending time with family, trying to catch up on reading for classes

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

I regret my first time.

You should message me if

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