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I'm an undecided-career-path student living and working in Omaha, NE. I'm also working on creating my own area corporate identity consultancy (graphic design, marketing, that kind of stuff).

I love films (don't ask how many are in my Netflix queue right now), geeking out (Macs, gadgets, design, sci-fi, etc), cooking (Indian, Thai, Japanese, and though I'm not vegan, cooking vegan), and lifting weights. I also enjoy political discussion (as long as you're not a bigot) and learning about religion and philosophy.

I'm in a relationship of over three years with my closest friend and perfect foil, who I trust ultimately and from whom I find so much inspiration. I knew before I even met him that we were the best match I had ever imagined... and it feels like just yesterday when we met. From our senses of humor to music and film tastes to our world views and values, I've never met anyone as cool as him... at least not in person. I have met some cool people on the internet, but it's a little different. Anyway, we're not swingers or anything like that (I'm actually the one with the much higher libido), but we have talked over the years about our relationship and about being poly/open. We're happy with our lot, but we aren't closed to possibility. I know it's a rare and fleeting possibility that either of us would meet someone who appreciated all of these things, but the point isn't that I am/we are looking for it... I really don't think it is likely; it's that we're open to it. That's why my status says "available" and not "single" and also why I say "we" sometimes without realizing it!

When I want to learn about something, I usually have to know everything that there is to know--I immerse myself until I feel confident in my understanding of a subject. I like to be there for people, listen to them, and if I can, help or educate them. I live for new experiences and trying new things. I'll try almost anything once!

I find the bear or cub build very attractive. I like men who are stocky, beefy, muscled, or just chubby and cute... builds like construction workers, ex-football players, wrestlers, or just the normal dude next door are very hot to me. But just as hot are guys with sexy ink, punk piercings, geeky glasses, shaved heads, dark features, and facial hair or sideburns. Of course, none of those traits are as important as a genuine smile.

If you are an intelligent, open-minded, kind, and up-for-anything type of guy, I'm sure we'd be good friends. But if you are looking for more, it helps if we have a number of things in common, that you're willing to make memories with me, have an insatiable libido, and want to make the world a better place.

Each day I try to learn something and open my mind to the rest of the world and myself.

Giving honest advice, making people feel comfortable. Photo-retouching. Geeky/technical/mechanical stuff.

It's cheesy, but my blue eyes.

I could never do with out my loved ones, my email, salicylic acid, my music, and glasses or contacts (I'm so blind).

How am I not myself? How am I not myself? How am I not myself? (I Heart Huckabees)

I don't have a typical Friday night, but maybe I'm at home alone watching a movie, hanging out with some friends, experimenting with dinner, or just bumming around the internet avoiding sleep.

I feel sorry for men and women who shave their legs. One time, I tried it on a whim... my first thoughts were that I could never install a habit of such tedium into my daily life. Despite that, it was nice and smooth for half of a day, before those AWFUL, painful bumps set in. I did like being able to see my leg muscles better, but on a man I think that hair is sexy. Really sexy. Lesson: DON'T SHAVE YOUR HAIR!!! Hairy guys are sexy.

...you'd like to find a new friend, or just talk to someone.

...you're familiar with any of my music, movies, or interests listed (especially obscure ones!).

...you invented the internets.